{"id":86,"date":"2008-10-02T17:47:16","date_gmt":"2008-10-02T10:47:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.iwayvietnam.com\/tuanta\/2008\/10\/02\/10-d%e1%ba%a5u-hi%e1%bb%87u-nang-mu%e1%bb%91n-h%e1%ba%b9n-ho\/"},"modified":"2008-10-02T17:49:00","modified_gmt":"2008-10-02T10:49:00","slug":"10-d%e1%ba%a5u-hi%e1%bb%87u-nang-mu%e1%bb%91n-h%e1%ba%b9n-ho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.iwayvietnam.com\/tuanta\/2008\/10\/10-d%e1%ba%a5u-hi%e1%bb%87u-nang-mu%e1%bb%91n-h%e1%ba%b9n-ho\/","title":{"rendered":"10 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u n\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1eb9n h\u00f2"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Khi mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e1t t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi, ph\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt &#8220;b\u1eadt \u0111\u00e8n xanh&#8221;. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0i d\u0169a k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh, c\u00e1c anh ch\u00e0ng c\u0169ng n\u00ean n\u00e2ng cao kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 10 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u cho th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef mu\u1ed1n h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. C\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Khi m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng trong m\u1ed9t c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a ph\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. Ph\u1ea3i r\u1ea5t c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef m\u1edbi d\u00e1m n\u1edf n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng xa l\u1ea1. V\u00ec th\u1ebf h\u00e3y \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi t\u01b0\u01a1i.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. \u0110i qua \u0111i l\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t thi\u1ebfu n\u1eef c\u1ee9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111i l\u1ea1i \u1edf nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb tr\u00ed n\u1eb1m trong t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong khi r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fd do g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00f4i k\u00e9o s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u00e0ng \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng g\u1eedi th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p r\u1eb1ng n\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 ri\u00eang v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn nh\u01b0ng \u00eam tai.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. D\u00f9ng m\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>C\u1eb7p m\u00f4i c\u1ee7a ph\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 m\u00ea h\u1ed3n v\u00e0 \u0111a s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Khi m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef mu\u1ed1n h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, n\u00e0ng s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng son b\u00f3ng, \u0111\u01b0a ng\u00f3n tay l\u00ean m\u00f4i ho\u1eb7c d\u00f9ng \u1ed1ng h\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 u\u1ed1ng cocktail thay v\u00ec u\u1ed1ng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp. N\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u00f4i l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. T\u1ef1 t\u00e1ch ra kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu sau khi giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, n\u00e0ng t\u00e1ch ra kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e1m b\u1ea1n th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u n\u00e0ng ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft chuy\u1ec7n. Ph\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng trong vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1ch ra kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e0ng &#8220;nh\u1eafn nh\u1ee7&#8221; r\u1eb1ng, n\u00e0ng \u0111ang h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p r\u00e0o ch\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. B\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>V\u00ec m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i l\u00fd do, khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan t\u00e2m ho\u1eb7c m\u00ea m\u1ea9n l\u1eabn nhau, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu n\u00e0ng b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n &#8211; t\u1eeb c\u00e1ch c\u1ea7m ly hay ng\u1ed3i &#8211; th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i n\u00e0ng \u0111ang mu\u1ed1n l\u00f4i k\u00e9o s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1eb9n h\u00f2. B\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c l\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng \u1edf b\u1eadc cao \u1edf con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt.<\/p>\n<p><strong>6. Ngh\u1ecbch t\u00f3c<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y kh\u00e1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn, song c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 trong b\u00e0n tay ph\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p, t\u00f3c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t v\u0169 kh\u00ed \u0111a n\u0103ng. Khi mu\u1ed1n l\u00f4i k\u00e9o s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a nam gi\u1edbi, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c ng\u00f3n tay v\u00e2n v\u00ea t\u00f3c ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang x\u00f5a xu\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u0103ng th\u00eam v\u1ebb b\u00ed \u1ea9n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>7. Ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Khi n\u00e0ng t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n v\u00e0 ch\u1ea1m nh\u1eb9 v\u00e0o c\u00e1nh tay ho\u1eb7c vai b\u1ea1n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i nhanh ch\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 ho\u1eb7c n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1edfi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u n\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n \u0103n t\u1ed1i ho\u1eb7c \u0111i ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>8. Giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i con m\u1eaft l\u00e0 c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y qua \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft. Giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng. Th\u00f4ng qua h\u00e0nh vi \u1ea5y, n\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 r\u1eb1ng n\u00e0ng ch\u1eb3ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi m\u1ea5y tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i tr\u00ean m\u00e1y t\u00ednh m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ch\u1edd b\u1ea1n m\u1eddi \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1eddi gian t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh vi giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 thu\u1eadn v\u1edbi m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n<p><strong>9. X\u00e2m nh\u1eadp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ri\u00eang t\u01b0 l\u00e0 n\u01a1i m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn. Khi m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng gian \u1ea5y, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 t\u1edbi th\u0103m ch\u1ed7 \u1edf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u n\u00e0ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. M\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n xem x\u00e9t tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0a ra ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng.<\/p>\n<p><strong>10. T\u1edbi g\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>H\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean quan ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111i qua \u0111i l\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd ngh\u0129a s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n. N\u00f3 cho ph\u00e9p n\u00e0ng duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft, ngh\u1ecbch t\u00f3c, ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt b\u00e0y t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu n\u00e0ng b\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1edbi ph\u00eda b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 n\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n x\u00fac ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 h\u1eb9n h\u00f2.<\/p>\n<p align=\"right\"><strong>Vi\u1ec7t Linh<\/strong> (theo <em>Askmen<\/em>)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Khi mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e1t t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi, ph\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt &#8220;b\u1eadt \u0111\u00e8n xanh&#8221;. 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